It is a Decision...

It is a Decision...

Many times i had this phrase in my mind, " It's not I don't want to change but I can't, I can't help it to feel like that." I think this is very normal for anyone, but the problem is when this phrase pops up too often. Whenever a challenge comes, u will automatically say I want to change but I can't and not long later, we start believing that and that is where disaster comes. Even before you start anything, you have failed for not even trying. What I've learned is, it is seriously not because we can't but in fact it is because we do not want to. It is a decision to make, to choose to be confident and say yes I can or to be all gloomy and always let our negative feelings control us.